Should You Propose on Valentine’s Day?

January 17, 2010 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Valentine’s Day is a day that simply says “romance” to so many couples. It’s easy to see why this day might be a popular choice for a marriage proposal. But with Valentine’s Day being one of the most romantic days of the year – is the really the best day to pick for your marriage proposal? Or are expectations running a bit too high? Should you propose on Valentine’s Day? Let’s talk about the pro’s and the con’s for proposing on Valentine’s Day.

PRO With romance on everyone’s mind, Valentine’s Day very well could be the perfect day. Many women receive marriage proposals on Valentine’s Day. There is simply romance in the air everywhere you go. Most restaurants offer romantic dinner specials. Flowers are plentiful and easy to find. Romance is all in the air – all around you. Why, we think some of these marriage proposals may simply be inspired by the romantic day itself!

CON A proposal on Valentine’s Day ruins the surprise experience. Many men say they want to see that look of joy and happiness as they surprise their love with a marriage proposal. On Valentine’s Day a marriage proposal may even be expected by some couples – as they have reached that point in their relationships. For many men they look forward to surprising their mates nearly as much as they do proposing to her. To propose on Valentine’s Day means there is a lot less surprise factor. Something to keep in mind if you choose this date.

CON A Valentine’s Day proposal is usually costly. From restaurants, florists and other entertainment know they are at a premium for the day. They can charge up to 50% higher costs on this day than they could a week ago or a week later – simply because of that romantic Valentine’s Day. By proposing earlier or later your proposal could be more extravagant or elegant in the way that you choose. Valentine’s day prices are sadly, always higher and not always for a good reason that the consumer can understand except for supply and demand.

A Memorable Valentine’s Day Without Going Broke

January 16, 2010 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Valentine’s Day is soon upon us. Couples and singles alike are looking for creative and romantic Valentine’s Day ideas. One of the biggest challenges faced is the great expense of Valentine’s Day. It seems as if restaurant costs, florist and even boxes of chocolates cost so much more during this very romantic time of year. How can you say “I love you” and “You’re special” without spending all you’ve got for that special moment?

The best tip to making Valentine’s Day memorable is thinking about what would be special specifically for your sweetie. What do they like or what stands out in your courtship? Did you eat special foods or go special places that the two of you enjoyed? Do you have pet names for each other that could easily translate into fun Valentine’s Day gifts? Spend a little time brainstorming about what your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband would find the most thoughtful and you’ll have a real winner.

A very successful Valentine’s Day idea is to have dinner at the restaurant you went to for your very first date. Or even a restaurant that was important in your relationship, perhaps you said “I love you” there. Even if it was your favorite pizza joint, this could actually be a much better Valentine’s Day than going for the classic romantic meal with candlelight.

Some people think they have to spend a fortune on Valentine’s Day gifts. They really make an effort to get the biggest, brightest and most over-the-top Valentine’s Day gift they can find. The most ironic thing is that often these gifts are easily forgotten. What our romantic partners usually want from us is thoughtfulness. Try writing a love letter or giving them a rose – one for every month you have been together.

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about taking out a bank loan to be a special and wonderful day. Taking the time to listen to your romantic partner and express your true feelings is the most important thing. Doing something special for them to show just how much you care can make a great difference. It will mean so much to them.

Valentine’s Day Goodies for the Non Sweets Lover

January 15, 2010 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

When many think of Valentine’s Day – one of their first thoughts is “chocolate!” It’s easy to see why: chocolate and sweet treats are literally everywhere. You’ll see the classic satin covered chocolate hearts filled with chocolate candies, and many other chocolate sweet treats for lovers for Valentine’s Day.

Chocolate has long been considered an aphrodisiac and is very popular with both men and women as a snack or an indulgent dessert. For Valentine’s Day many love to receive the gift of chocolate. But in some cases this gift of chocolate is not as welcome as we would hope. Whether your love is on a diet, has dietary restrictions, doesn’t like chocolate or would prefer something else – it is important to realize that there are other choices besides the classic satin covered chocolate heart to give on Valentine’s Day. Let’s talk about some of our favorite choices when you don’t want to give sweets for Valentine’s Day.

Bath and shower products are an excellent choice for both men and women. Try shower or bath gel, body lotion or fancy soaps. Not gifts that tell someone to “get clean” – but gifts that encourage them to indulge themselves. Today’s bath and shower products often have natural ingredients that are wonderful for your skin and body and feel and smell wonderful. These are excellent choices when you want to indulge someone – but they really don’t want those extra calories.

A massage at a spa is another great choice as a Valentine’s Day gift. What could be more delicious and indulgent than a massage? There are quite a few types of massage, from relaxation, sports, aromatherapy and even pregnancy massage. A massage is the perfect gift for someone who needs to unwind. This is a great way to treat someone who has been working hard or has been training for an athletic event – or who is expecting a child. Massage is beneficial for most people. There are some circumstances you should not have a massage – ask your massage therapist before reserving your appointment and talk about your medical background.

Romantic Date Ideas for Valentine’s Day

January 14, 2010 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Valentine’s Day is for many considered to be one of the most romantic date nights of the year. Whether you are single and dating or married and part of a couple – you’ll want to have a special date night on Valentine’s Day. You don’t have to settle for going to an expensive restaurant. There are many choices to choose from when it comes to romantic date ideas for Valentine’s Day.

Try recreating your first date or even one of your favorite dates. Sometimes this isn’t even a very expensive date – but more of one that brings back a lot of happy memories for the two of you. That’s the whole point! Imagine going to your favorite inexpensive Italian restaurant for spaghetti and meatballs or for a night of bowling with rented shoes. That night got your relationship started to where it is now. Best of all, choosing a different type of activity is likely to be less crowded and the costs will be much cheaper than going to an expensive restaurant.

An excellent choice for many couples is trying a physical activity they’ve always wanted to try. Doing something new together can be very bonding and bring you closer together. Try beginner ballroom dance lessons or a massage class. Or even a couples yoga class. There are so many choices to select from – you’ll easily find something that tickles your fancy. A physical activity often involves touching each other or simply becoming more conscious of your body. That can help your romantic life in many ways, especially for long term couples looking for a little extra sizzle.

A new cuisine is also a fun choice on Valentine’s Day. The key to this experience is that it is something the two of you both want to try – not simply something one of you wants to do and the other is putting up with. When you try a new experience, this newness reminds you of how you were as a new couple and can take you out of a rut. Trying a new experience like a different cuisine is most often a “safe” choice because it is a small decision but it can lead to making bigger choices you desire in your relationship.

Finding Discounted Diamond Engagement Rings Online

January 14, 2010 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

In someone’s life, engagement is one of the most important and precious event. It means a lot for couple who have decide to tie knot and start on a new life. Most of them wan to preserve this memory for the entire life and so they always want to exchange beautiful and unique engagement rings with each other. Therefore, everyone wants their ring to be classy and sophisticated. However, people often step back because of the price factor of the ring.

To everyone’s good news, uniquely crafted and wonderfully designed engagement rings are now available at a discount. The discount diamond engagement rings are more available on online stores rather than shopping malls or roadside dealers. So now as the discounted diamond rings are available on the web, it will be quite handy for everyone to afford a ring for their engagement or as their valentine gift. Even the prices are low, the diamond rings are never compromised with its cut, texture and quality as compared to the costly diamond rings.

The discount diamond engagement rings can be found from several online jewelry stores. Number of online shops offers visitor a special discount packages for buying the engagement rings. People often enjoy shopping on online stores because it saves time and also give you access to all kinds of trendy and latest designed items. Therefore, diamond rings aren’t exception! Since engagement or valentine parties are something in which people want everything. Such occasions come rarely and that’s why people always want to arrange for everything perfect.

Diamonds are always a weakness for everyone and that’s why women remain crazy about the precious stone. This is actually likeness about the beauty, the attractiveness and its uniqueness. Every girl wants a diamond engagement ring and so her suitor can now afford discount diamond engagement ring from the various online stores. On the online s stores, you can even afford diamond rings which come with yellow or white gold engagement ring.

Online jewelry stores always help to find out the perfect diamond and there apart from diamond rings you can even find other items like necklace, earring, loose diamond investment or any jewelry piece. There are certain steps which you need to follow when you are doing the jewelry shopping process. You can be invited to look into the online categories where you can find more than 100,000 diamonds which are specially meant for engagements and valentine gifts. In case if you need some help for the enormous diamond jewelries and then you can always call the toll free numbers of the site and they can help you with the process. From the online database, you can get diamonds for engagements rings, the wedding rings and even other jewelries which would be quite lighter and comes in for a cheap price.

You can find some perfect stone for engagement rings and valentine gifts and can find a perfect gift for your loved one. When you are booking diamond rings from the online stores the process is simple and affordable.

Popular Romantic Gifts for Valentine’s Day

January 14, 2010 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Valentine’s Day is the ideal time for a romantic gesture for your sweetie. What could be more perfect than to show the person you love the most how much you care for them. There are some very classic romantic gestures that are ideal for Valentine’s Day. Keep in mind that there are many romantic gestures – but some of these have become classics ideal for Valentine’s Day because so many people enjoy them. If you choose one of these, it is sure to be a big hit!

Flowers are a wonderful gift to give your love on Valentine’s Day. Roses are the classic gift for romantic love, especially red or pink roses. At times these can be hard to find at the florist, so it truly pays to reserve them ahead of time if you wish to give them to your sweetie on Valentine’s Day. For some women, the gift of flowers means more than anything else. They saw their mother get flowers when they were little and to them this means romance above everything else. A dozen red roses is the classic lover’s gift.

Perfume is another classic romantic Valentine’s Day choice. Many men will select their wives favorite perfume and buy them a fresh bottle. Or perhaps buy them a bottle of the latest perfume available this year in all of the fashion magazines. Perfume in some ways is like giving a woman flowers every day. This is a way for a woman to smell like flowers every day she chooses to wear it. Many women have a signature perfume scent or they enjoy wearing a number of perfumes.

Chocolates are a very special Valentine’s Day gift. A pound or two of chocolates in a red satin covered heart is considered to be the most classic Valentine’s Day gift. Some women have a preference for a specific brand or type of chocolate – such as dark chocolate or milk chocolate. Chocolate is an aphrodisiac and many find chocolate romantic.

Lingerie is another popular Valentine’s Day gift. Valentine’s Day is a day and night of romance and the gift of lingerie shows this more than any other gift. Whether black, red, pink or white – lacy lingerie is a sweet and romantic gift shows that special woman just how much you care for her.

Stop Your Divorce

February 24, 2009 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Have you told your partner that you want a divorce and are now regretting it? Or has your husband or wife said “I want a divorce” What ever the circumstances, if you are now thinking  How can I prevent my divorce? Then you need to prepare yourself for some hard work in order to win back the trust of your spouse.

Let us start with the basics. If you have behaved badly, then you must recognize this and apologize. Do not underestimate the power of saying that you are sorry. You must find a way to convey that you really mean it, so no half hearted attempts will do. You need to have a serious and well thought out approach if you want to save your marriage.

Did your partner do or say something to hurt you that caused you to want a divorce? Forgiveness is one of the most difficult things to come to terms with in an intimate relationship, but you can do it. Really listen to what your spouse has to say, even if it is hard to hear. You need to have a really good understanding about what they are feeling in order to be able to change things.

To prevent your divorce, you must be prepared to be totally open and honest. If you are talking about painful and difficult things, try to be as kind and as understanding as possible. Blame should be the furthest thing from you mind at this stage of your discussions, however hard that may seem.

This initial part of trying to stop your divorce should be a time of learning what on earth went wrong and trying to ascertain if there is any way of putting things right.

Divorce is a difficult and painful route to go down, so if you truly want to stay with your spouse, and have a chance of making things better between you, then you must grab the opportunity before you. There are many places that you can go to for counseling, but beware of talking to friends and family exclusively, as they will have there own agenda. To see how other people cope with the same problems you are facing, head over to the forum at StayingTogether. You will also find an excellent  program there that you can download, from where you can gain  a lot of help and insight.

Remember, things change, and you will not always feel so confused and upset. You have a chance to get the help that you need now, so don’t hesitate.
Good luck.

Romantic Gifts

February 3, 2009 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Well, I came across this site (RomanticGifts.com) not too long ago and thought I would share some of their romantic gifts with you.  They have quite the assortment of gifts from the “normal” to the “extreme” and I am sure you can find something that is right up your alley.

Current Promotion: RomanticGifts.com – Coupon CJ35 – 10% off orders over $25.

“The Fantasy Suite Gift Set – Their Most Extensive Gift Set”

gift-packageThe Fantasy Suite Gift Set makes a special romantic occasion absolutely extraordinary.

Enclosed in an elegant hat box, you will find full-size bottles of warming massage oil, chocolate body paint with a brush, champagne flutes, a champagne bucket, two satin robes, one thousand scented silk rose petals, three pillar candles, fifty tealight candles, the Amazing Hot Heart Massager, a romantic music CD, and a full color romantic guide to ensure that your evening together is unforgettable!

The Fantasy Suite Gift Set includes everything you need to create the perfect romantic experience.

This set will be useful for years of pleasure.

Hopefully it begins a relationship that only dreams are made of…this kit really goes above and beyond!

So if you want the ultimate gift package, you can get it here:


“The Fantasy Suite Gift Set – Our Most Extensive Gift Set”

Next on the list, if you don’t want the complete mega-pack above is the “Bed of Roses package.

“The Deluxe Bed of Roses Kit – Sets The Mood For Love”

bed-of-roses“This is an all encompassing kit for an extraordinary occasion.

While you light candles, put champagne on ice, and scatter rose petals amidst the bed sheets your loved one will receive a discreet invitation to a night of romance.

When they arrive their breath will be stolen by the array of amore.

Continue the evening with chocolate massage oil, a massager, then let love take it’s course.

Finish things off by sharing the rose scented bubble bath.

The Deluxe Bed of Roses gift set really makes a wonderful evening happen.

Of course, you don’t have to use it all at once, but your lover deserves it.”

Get your package here -“The Deluxe Bed of Roses Kit – Sets The Mood For Love”

OK, so those are the two most common romantic gift packages that they offer, but only 2 of thousands on their site.  I encourage you to head over and see what catches your eye (or heart!) today and take advantage of their sale prices. RomanticGifts.com – Coupon CJ35 – 10% off orders over $25.

Top 4 Weird Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas!

February 3, 2009 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Gifts conventionally associated with Valentine’s Day are flowers, expensive jewelry, chocolates, sweets, expensive dinners, etc. However, chances are that your Valentine is already bored of getting the same old types of gifts every year, so why bore her any more this year? She wants you to gift her something different, so why not surprise her with a rather unexpected gift that would not only make her happy but also remember this Valentine’s Day for several years to come! And there is no need to freak out as the gifts I am recommending in this article are as affordable as they could be!

1. T-Equalizer Shirts: These T-shirts come with an electro-luminescent design and are great if you plan to celebrate this year’s Valentine’s Day with some music and songs. These shirts are available both for males and females. They shirts are sound-activated and a great way to get yourself noticed!  T-Equalizer Shirts also come with an EQ panel which is further connected to a battery package! I am sure you and your partner would have lots of fun with these shirts!

2. Love-O-Meter: This is a great, inexpensive gadget for Valentine’s Day. Popularly called Valentine’s Day Love-O-Meter, it is a fun little gadget which would keep you glued for hours together! Its job is to reveal your innermost feelings for your partner. You just need to press a few buttons and it starts working! Obviously, whatever ’secret’ it ‘reveals’ shouldn’t be taken at face value, for it is obviously not the truth, but it is a good entertainer for both of you!

3. Personalized gift newspapers: No, you don’t need to go into a newspaper publishing house for this. All you need to do is to write something truly romantic and personalized for your partner, and then visit an old newspaper printing press which doesn’t use computers to print newspapers. They would print your words in a way that they would look like words handwritten on authentic newsprint!

You see, this is a truly rare gift and your partner would be taken by surprise when you offer the gift newspaper to her. She would at once know how special she is for you! These gift newspapers may also have romantic articles printed on both sides for your partner to enjoy!

4. Body pens: Body pens are nothing but sweet desserts which both you and your partner could enjoy! These desserts come in both strawberry and chocolate flavors. I am sure both of you enjoy chocolates and other sweets, so it is rather a fun and romantic way to satiate your sweet tooth.  With body pens desserts, you not only satiate your sugar cravings but also your romantic eyes!

A Romantic Gift Idea for Your Valentine!

January 26, 2009 by Cupid  
Filed under Advice for Relationships

Valentine’s Day is absolutely meaningless without romantic gifts. After all, how else would you express your love for your beloved except by means of gifts? The type of gifts you would offer to your beloved has changed over the course of time; in good old days a simple handwritten note expressing love for the other were sufficient; but in the modern age, this is simply not enough! You need to top it with candies, sweets, flowers, or even expensive jewelry. If you are stuck with Valentine’s Day gift ideas and don’t know what would please your soulmate, this article would help you out!

Some people are legitimately worried about what gift to buy which would not only please their partners but also suit their pockets. Let’s face it, in these times of recession and unemployment, who doesn’t want to save money! But let me tell you that there is nothing to worry about it. Remember that Valentine’s Day gifts are supposed to express your love for your beloved, so they needn’t be something too costly or luxurious! In fact, your sweetheart would be happy even if you simply invite them to a romantic warm bath with you! You know, nothing is more pleasing than bathing with one’s soulmate after a day of humdrum work.

So here is what you can do to prepare for the bath: first, fill your bathtub with warm water. While the warm water is still in motion, make sure to pour a cupful of fragrant bubble bath into it, so that the bathtub becomes full of sweet-smelling bubbles! After that, light some red candles and place them all around the bathtub; you may also scatter rose petals all around the tub to express your love for your partner. If you are in a more romantic mood, you can even surprise your partner by scattering rose petals all the way from the entrance door to the bathroom. That would really make him your slave!

Some people don’t like the idea of bubble bath because it is old-fashioned and clichéd; if you too are of the same opinion then you have another option. Instead of bubbles, you can pour Epsom salts and dry powered milk in the bathtub water. After both of you are done with the bath, you will want to message your partner’s body with a fragrant oil so as to get him into a romantic mood!

Did I tell you that you could extend the romantic atmosphere from the bathroom to bedroom by scattering rose petals and placing candles around your bed as well! It would be one Valentine’s Day which none of you would be able to forget!

As you can see, making your partner happy on Valentine’s Day needn’t be complicated or expensive; it can be something as simple and inexpensive as a romantic bath!

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